Being a single Mum is my superpower!
OK, heads up! Before you read this, at no point during this article will I require you to reach for your miniature violin or your Kleenex.
To be clear, this is not a “oh, woe is me” moment.
This is simply me telling you, the Reader (whoever you might be), why my being a single Mum is my superpower!
And why that particular superpower is also one of the key reasons I am pretty damn good at my job.
Let me break it down for you…
When you’re a single Mum, you have to be pretty efficient. When you’re a single Mum of three, you have to be very efficient. When you’re a single Mum of three, who all attend different schools, you need to be efficient on steroids. (If it isn’t perfectly obvious, I fall into the last category!)
Efficiency isn’t necessarily a skill I was aware that I had as a teenager growing up, or when I was footloose and fancy free. Maybe it was there in the background, but I never really had need to call upon it.
But like the millions of other parents on the planet who carry the workload of not only themselves PLUS their adorable offspring, it is a skill that I have not only developed, but mastered.
What it essentially means, is that I have the ability to do 37 tasks at the same time, but to a very high standard.
It also means that those 37 tasks will get done within the appointed time, because if they don’t get done, they Don’t. Get. Done.
It also means that procrastination, clock-watching, thumb-twiddling and daytime TV viewing are concepts I’ve heard of, but have never experienced.
If I could summarise my life, I could do it with six simple words… “On my watch, shit gets done!”
Now, at this juncture, let me interject and point out that I don’t tell you this for applause, accolades or even a little medal (which would be nice if my kids happen to read this). Not at all. In fact, I wish I didn’t have to live my life like a race. But this is my life, this is my lot, and I do what I have to do.
But how does this relate to my professional life?
Quite simply, I know that I have a finite amount of time each day to make a difference in my life for myself, my kids, my future, my Clients, and my Candidates. And that is between 8.30am (when the kids leave for school) and 4.30pm (when the kids start drifting home from school). (And then at 7pm onwards when the kids are fed and dealt with, when most of you are watching MAFS reruns!)
Every minute counts. Every second counts.
And what that means to the Clients and the Candidates I partner with, is that you know I’m never going to drop the ball, and you’re never going to find yourself chasing me.
But finally, and I suppose the little miniature violin could be pulled out for this last bit… See that big pointy thing that sits on top of these expensive four walls? That’s my roof. And if I don’t “get shit done”, then my kids won’t have one of those over their demanding little heads.
That’s why being a single Mum is my superpower.






